If your match is just after a partner for their appearance, then you can safely assume they aren't looking for someone to introduce to mom and dad. Additionally, someone who includes "any mention of looking for someone hot, attractive, sexy, etc." won't be your best bet either. Or I'll even get highly invested in messaging someone for a day and then never return to the interaction again.īut if you are addicted to dating apps, like many of us are "there are several flags you can watch out for if you are trying to avoid people just looking for sex," according to Resnick.įor example, someone who only posts shirtless pics might not be looking for a serious relationship, Resnick explains.
I don't look at all the photos or read bios. Sometimes (a lot of the time), I'll swipe carelessly without even looking or out of boredom. "Regardless of your personal intent, the design of most 'swipe apps' is geared toward quick, superficial connections within a video game-style atmosphere," Resnick says.Īnd it's true. Online dating coach Eric Resnick tells Elite Daily some ways to figure out if that Tinder match just wants sex, so you don't waste your time and theirs.
Well, apparently there are some signs to look out for when it comes to a match just looking for sex. So how can you figure out your match's intentions? So I know that, while finding love online can be rare, it might also be real. I even went on a date with a guy who, when I told him I wasn't drinking, said to me, "Well, what fun are we gonna have, then?" But on the flip side of that, I've attended weddings of couples - very happy, well-matched couples - who have met on Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge. I've been on plenty of dates with men who are clearly just looking for one-night stands.
In this digital dating era, people's true intentions can be difficult to decipher. But when you finally do find someone promising, how can you tell if that Tinder match just wants sex, or if they're actually looking for a relationship? Because I'm ready for a nice dude, not blacked out one-night stand man. But I swear, I really am looking for love, and part of me thinks I can find it by swiping continuously over and over again on my phone, like I'm online shopping. Online dating is confusing sometimes, because I go on wanting to meet my soulmate, but usually, I just end up making pen pals or getting drinks with douche-y guys.
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